Reach out to me via this form, Bluesky, Discord (@gildedfrost), or Twitter if you have questions, comments, requests, or anything you would like to discuss regarding my blog. If you fill out the form, I will respond via email to the address provided. Scroll past the form for more info.

I am always available for inquiries and will let you know my availability and what timeframe works for me.

Work With Me

I work with companies to publicly review products on my blog, test products with private feedback, and write sponsored blog posts. I share my reviews on Bluesky and an active Discord server for collectors. I additionally make at least one post on social media featuring the product when I receive it. Bluesky is currently my primary social media platform.

All posts include my own honest opinions and relevant disclaimers. My primary goal is to offer information to my readers. All links related to business/review/affiliate agreements will be marked as nofollow/sponsored.

Blog post reviews:
I write a review after receiving a copy of the product. I do not usually charge a fee if I am part of the brand’s affiliate program or if the brand is discoverable through Shopify Collabs. Otherwise, I may charge a fee of $50-200 USD per article depending on product value, number of products being reviewed, cost of international shipping to the US, and/or my interest in the product. If I already own the product, I already plan to review it someday, but may accept payment to prioritize it and add it to my active queue.

I approach reviews with the perspective that what doesn’t work for me may still work for others. I tend not to label toys as good vs. bad, but rather provide information about my experience to help readers make an informed decision.

Sponsored single-brand review posts will not include outgoing links to competing products, but will include internal links to other posts on my blog, may include comparisons to other products that I own, and may include mentions of products from other brands.

If multiple products are involved, these may be reviewed in the same article or separate articles at my discretion or per an agreement. Multi-product review posts will only involve related items from the same brand/company/retailer, like in this post, unless otherwise agreed upon in advance.

Communication as key to good working relationships. I am very clear about expected timelines and planned format (single article, group review, etc.). If I have significant concerns that could be resolved, I bring those up privately before writing the article so that it’s not a surprise.

Products:
I review or otherwise write about sex toys, products related to sex toys, and products sold alongside sex toys. My focus is indie or fantasy sex toys made from platinum cure silicone, but I may consider other indie/fantasy products or non-fantasy products from larger brands, particularly dildos. I am unlikely to accept arrangements for large items such as sex furniture. I have very low interest in vibrators and white-label products.

Brands can request that I review specific products or let me take my pick from their lineup. If they request a review for a product I’m not interested in, I will suggest an alternative from their lineup. We can work together to figure out something that will work out!

I communicate with brands regarding my preferences (model, size, firmness) to ensure that I receive a product with the best opportunity for positive feedback based on my personal tastes. Size and firmness are very important since I know what works best for my body. Colors are not important to in-use feedback and I can accept surprise colors or stock colors. Most brands that I work with offer customs or made-to-order items and I select from their standard options.

Additional items that were not involved in the agreement may be included, like standard bonus goodies included with typical orders, or small items like squishies or promotional items that you would like included in photos. I will briefly note them in the article and include them in a photo, but will not review them. Please do not include lube samples without verifying with me first due to allergies.

Social media promos:
I share a product, make a thread regarding my first impressions, or otherwise showcase a product on Bluesky while engaging with my audience. This is a great option if the product is small or not suited to full reviews (like squishies), if you want promotions during sales periods like Black Friday, or if you want the product to be highlighted much sooner than my review wait time.

We can discuss fees and the number of posts expected. Fees may be waived if I have joined your affiliate program. I can showcase/promote products I already own. Arranged promotions will be noted with #ad and/or similar disclosure.

Sponsored blog posts:
I may accept payment for a blog post that is not centered around reviews but rather a topic instead, either toy-related or adjacent, with a link to the site sponsoring the post. $100-250 depending on topic and word count. I will be picky with this since I prioritize reviews.